Surrogacy for Intended Parents
Guidance, clarity, and support for individuals and couples beginning their surrogacy journey.
Becoming a parent through surrogacy is a profoundly meaningful decision—and often an emotional one. Whether you’re facing infertility, single parenthood, or navigating family building as an LGBTQ+ couple, surrogacy offers a safe, structured way to bring your child into the world.
Nest & Co specializes in helping intended parents understand international surrogacy, compare countries, choose reputable programs, and feel supported from the very first question to the moment you bring your baby home.
Who Are Intended Parents?
Intended parents (IPs) are the individuals or couple who will become the legal parents of a child born through surrogacy.
Intended parents may include:
- Heterosexual couples facing infertility
- Women unable to carry a pregnancy
- Men who wish to become single fathers
- Lesbian couples planning biological parenthood
- Gay couples and LGBTQ+ families
- Parents with genetic or medical conditions preventing pregnancy
- People who have exhausted other fertility options
Regardless of your background, surrogacy provides a structured, safe, and supported path to parenthood.
Why Do Intended Parents Choose Surrogacy?
Every family is different, but these are the most common reasons:
✔ Infertility or medical conditions
Some intended mothers cannot carry a pregnancy due to:
- Uterine conditions
- Repeated IVF failure
- Autoimmune disease
- Heart or kidney conditions
- High-risk pregnancy history
✔ Desire for a biological connection
Surrogacy allows many parents to have a child genetically related to them.
✔ Single parenthood
Surrogacy supports single men and women who wish to build their family independently.
✔ LGBTQ+ family building
Gay couples, trans parents, and other LGBTQIA+ families often choose gestational surrogacy.
✔ Predictable, transparent family planning
Compared to adoption or foster care, surrogacy offers:
- Clear timelines
- Legal security
- Full involvement in the process
- Detailed planning from beginning to birth
How Intended Parents Begin the Surrogacy Process
Here’s the journey from first consultation to becoming parents.
1. Initial Consultation
You meet with a surrogacy specialist to discuss:
- Your fertility background
- Your goals and expectations
- Preferred countries
- Budget and timeline
- Legal requirements
Nest & Co creates a clear roadmap tailored to your unique situation.
2. Choosing a Surrogacy Destination
Laws differ significantly between countries.
We help you compare options such as:
- USA
- Canada
- Colombia
- Mexico (specific legal states)
- Greece
- Argentina (depending on legal eligibility)
You’ll understand:
- Legality for your nationality
- Surrogate availability
- Total cost
- Timeline and risks
- Hospital care
- Embassy procedures
Choosing the right destination is one of the most important decisions.
3. IVF, Embryo Creation & Donor Options
Intended parents create embryos through IVF using:
- Their own eggs & sperm
- Donor eggs
- Donor sperm
- Double donation (if necessary)
We guide you on:
- Selecting a fertility clinic
- PGT/PGT-A embryo testing
- Transporting or freezing embryos
- Using an egg donor or sperm donor
4. Matching With a Surrogate
In regulated programs, surrogates are screened for:
- Medical health
- Psychological well-being
- Lifestyle and safety
- Obstetric history
You and the surrogate are matched based on:
- Shared values
- Communication preferences
- Pregnancy expectations
- Willingness for contact
- View on selective reduction
- Location and medical compatibility
A strong match leads to a supportive, meaningful journey.
5. Legal Agreements
Surrogacy requires a formal contract between:
- The intended parents
- The surrogate (and her partner, if applicable)
It ensures:
- Clear parental rights
- Medical decision-making guidelines
- Compensation (for compensated countries)
- Travel and birth planning
- Legal protection for all parties
This is a critical layer of safety—especially internationally.
6. Embryo Transfer & Pregnancy
Once the contract is signed:
- The surrogate begins a medically monitored cycle
- Embryo transfer is performed at a licensed IVF clinic
- Pregnancy is confirmed
- Intended parents receive regular updates throughout the journey
During pregnancy, you can expect:
- Medical reports
- Ultrasound images
- Access to support professionals
- Opportunities to visit (depending on country rules)
7. Birth, Parentage & Bringing Your Baby Home
At birth:
- You meet your baby immediately
- The surrogate receives full medical care
- Local parentage processes begin
Depending on the country, you may need:
- Pre-birth order (USA)
- Post-birth order (some LATAM/EU regions)
- Birth certificate issuance
- Passport application
- Exit authorization (if required)
Nest & Co supports you until you safely return home with your child.
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Support for Intended Parents
Surrogacy is a profound emotional journey, often filled with excitement, anxiety, and hope. Intended parents benefit from compassionate, informed guidance.
Nest & Co provides:
✔ Independent, unbiased advice
We do not sell programs—we help you choose safely.
✔ Legal and medical clarity
You’ll understand your rights and responsibilities from the start.
✔ Emotional support
We guide you through the ups and downs of the journey.
✔ Logistics & travel coordination
Especially important for international surrogacy.
✔ Cultural & language support
Particularly in Latin America, Europe, and North America.
Surrogacy for Different Types of Intended Parents
Surrogacy for Infertility
A path for couples facing medical barriers to pregnancy.
Surrogacy for LGBTQ+ Parents
Inclusive, safe, and supportive family-building options.
Surrogacy for Single Parents
Designed for individuals building a family on their own.
Surrogacy for International Families
Expert navigation of countries, laws, and embassy processes.
Frequently Asked Questions for Intended Parents
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How long does surrogacy take?
Around 12–24 months depending on the country and embryo readiness.
Can intended parents join appointments?
Yes, depending on the destination—many offer video calls or in-person visits.
Do intended parents need to be married?
This varies by country; some allow unmarried couples or single individuals.
How do we choose the right surrogate?
Through medical screening, psychological evaluation, and mutual matching.